Pintu Masuk Syaitan dan Penyebab Matinya Hati

Syaitan tau titik-titik kelemahan manusia

  1. Marah dan syahwat: jangan marah, maka bagimu syurga
  2. Dengki (sampai seneng liat susah, berasa pengen nikmat dia pindah ke aku)
  3. Suka berhias dengan perabotan dan pakaian 
  4. Kenyang (menghilangkan Allah dari hatinya, menghilangkan orang lain dari hatinya, menghambat ketaatan, tidak tanggap mendengarkan nasihat, menyampaikan hikmah tidak didengar dari orang, meningkatkan syahwat)
  5. Tamak kepada manusia (sampai membuat kita buta dan tuli), meminta pengakuan sama manusia, semua amalan karena pamrih
  6. Terburu-buru dan tidak mengkonfirmasi persoalan (Hadits Abu Ya’la, Baihaqi: Sifat perlahan-lahan (Sabar) dari Allah, dan sifat tergesa-gesa itu berasal dari syaitan)
  7. Dirham, bunga, dan segala macam harta kekayaan (segala macam yang berlebihan dari takaran pokok itu g baik, yang sesuai dengan pokok aja bisa bikin hati kosong je)
  8. Bakhil dan takut miskin (menghindari hartanya untuk disadaqahkan)
  9. Fanatik pada mahzab (ga boleh sampai merendahkan mahzab lain)
  10. Mengajak orang awam untuk berfikir tentang Dzat Allah
  11. Buruk sangka terhadap kaum muslim lain

Terapi menolak syaiton: DZIKRULLAH! adalah menghadirkan Allah di setiap amalan.

Perumpamaan syaitan -> seekor anjing lapar. Jika kita punya sesuatu yang dia inginkan maka dia semakin ingin mendekat!

Jika sudah terjebak, syaitan akan mudah menarik kita dari satu pintu ke pintu lain.

Ibrahim bin Adham: “Mengapa doa kami tidak dikabulkan?” “Karena hati kalian telah mati. Ada 8 hal yang bikin hati mati:

  1. mengetahui hak Allah tetapi tidak menegakkan (shalat, puasa, dll)
  2. membaca Al Quran tapi tidak mengamalkan hukumnya
  3. mengatakan cinta Rasulullah tetapi mengabaikan sunnahnya
  4. mengatakan takut mati tetapi tidak mempersiapkan diri
  5. tidak menjadikan syaitan musuh, malah mendukung maksiat
  6. mengatakan takut api neraka tetapi memasukkan jasad ke dalamnya dengan maksiat
  7. mengatakan cinta surga tapi tidak menunjukkan usaha
  8. menutupi aib sendiri, tetapi menghamparkan aib orang lain”

Wallahu a’lam.

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Trust


Saya
: Mungkin ada baiknya kalau polisi memulai memberikan imej berbeda pada masyarakat, utamanya anak-anak. Imej yang bersahabat dan ada untuk melayani masyarakat, bukan untuk dijadikan obyek penakut-nakut yang dipakai saat membuat anak itu supaya tidak menangis lagi.
Polisi: Ya mungkin bisa kami berpakaian seperti badut dan bertingkah lucu agar anak-anak suka.. blabla yang intinya.. nanti kalau kami bersahabat masyarakat ngga akan merasa takut kalau melakukan kesalahan.

(Seminar lalu lintas di UGM, tahun 2010)
Ok so sebuah imej yang ditakuti, disegani adalah lebih penting ya daripada sebuah kepercayaan atas tugas seorang polisi?
Opini saya, dalam imej ditakuti dan disegani, jarak antara masyarakat dan polisi adalah

P———————————————————-M

Akibatnya, once something fails, youre gonna curse and hate them like they dont know what they are doing. Are people really then afraid to break the rules? No, they just find more ways to fool the police.

Namun jika lebih meningkatkan kepercayaan, tanpa harus imej yang keras dan menakut-nakuti

P——-M

When something fails, you will believe its not truly their fault, youre going to support them because you understand what they are doing. You will not attempt to fool them, you have this sort of responsible feelings not to betray this trust.

#justbabbling

Study at the Best University, Can We?

Imagine you are a student of Gadjah Mada University, Indonesia. The university which is considered one of the top three in the country. If your dream was to pursue a career in oil company, aiming for the best company in the world like, name it, Exxon, BP, Chevron, Schlumberger, Total, etc, its not impossible for you, and almost quite easy (and common :P). They have their business branch here in the country. Now if your dream is to continue studying, have you ever thought of going to the best university in the world? Harvard, MIT, Cambridge, whoa! Now you are called a dreamer just because you dare to mention these universities. Oh, come on, studying abroad is already good enough. I was thinking hard wondering why is this not possible common.

I traced back to my experience studying in an Australian high school back on my high school days. I went to one of the top three high school in the city (what’s with all ‘top three’?). I have to say I feel that I am quite smart and I have quite good grades back then. I enjoy school very much. I could excel the tests and I was in the high-grade competition students. Really. So I feel that I am good enough to this “world class competition”. And this is not just me. Back in Yogyakarta I feel like I am just an average student, to be honest. So its all of us!

Just tonight I found a website offering a scholarship to University of Cambridge, called the Gates Cambridge Scholarship at University of Cambridge and I found their yearbook. When I see their pics, they remind me of my friends back in that Australian high school (but of course, none of them are my old high school friends :P). I was all, hey! How come they are more successful than I am? How come they go to better school than I do? Was I not in the same level like they were in high school? They are just human too, aren’t they? They can be in the world class university. Top three! So why can’t we? Are we afraid to dream that high? Then again, if you can dream working in top three oil company in the world, why can’t we dream of going to top three university in the world?

Then I found this post on a website http://agusrendiwijaya.wordpress.com/2008/03/20/sekolah-di-mit-atau-harvard-university-kita-pasti-bisa/. It said the person who got accepted had an average GPA back in his bachelor degree (I wonder how he defines average? Maybe his average is the high average, because its ITB, you know). Now again, I have thought that one of the reason it has not been very common for us is that we never thought of it in our life! Those people from Europe, Australia, USA, they are familiar with the university. So lets familiarize ourself! We are the one to open the path of our future, no one else would do that for us.

Dream big, high, from this right moment.
We live only once so live like you are going to live forever.
meanwhile don’t forget to pray like we are going to die tomorrow 🙂